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Your tichel isn't hiding you. It's holding you.
When my Jewish head scarf goes on in the morning, I feel a sweet binding, the slightest bit of pressure, and suddenly I'm focused. I'm alive. I'm alert. I'm ready for the world. So what's really under the wrap? Today I'm letting you in on the secrets.
Wondering where to buy a tichel (or mitpachat)? It really is just a scarf. Look up a pashmina and you're on your way. The magic is in what goes underneath. There's the bobo that gives you height and elegance, and the velvet headband that kept my scarf on while I gave birth. Does a tichel ever fall off? I'll tell you about the time a branch caught mine on the way up to a tree house, with the rabbi climbing right behind me. Then there are the bold ways to tie a tichel that make women in Israel look so powerful, and the reason you can't just throw one on without your earrings.
Because my clothes are the uniform for my soul's mission. What's the uniform for yours?
Then come the questions women ask me most. If Jewish hair covering is about modesty, why wear a beautiful wig? Who says you're not supposed to be attractive? Being beautiful is a kiddush Hashem. Being seductive is something else entirely. I'll share something personal too: the sheitel I got last year, why it was an identity moment and not a fashion moment, and why I'm not going to make a religion out of headscarves. Plus what my husband really thinks.
Tichel, sheitel or baseball cap, every woman gets to find her own brand of beauty.
Whether you are Jewish and curious about your Judaism or simply curious about what Judaism has to offer, I welcome you here. We are all children of one G-d.
Do you cover your hair, or have you ever wanted to try? Tell me in the comments!
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CHAPTERS
00:00 What's Under My Head Scarf?
00:49 What's Underneath: The Bobo and Getting Volume
02:10 Tichel or Mitpachat? What It's Called
02:37 Where to Buy a Tichel
03:29 Anyone Can Cover Their Hair (and How It Feels)
04:34 Israeli Tichels and Different Ways to Tie
05:43 My Favorite DIY Tichel
05:58 Earrings and Jewelry With a Tichel
06:38 "My Clothes Are the Uniform for My Soul's Mission"
07:02 Does a Tichel Ever Fall Off? The Tree House Story
08:24 Your Hair Underneath: Private Life and Marriage
08:56 Why Do Women Wear Wigs?
09:20 If It's About Modesty, Why an Attractive Wig?
09:59 My Wig Experiment
10:56 What Does My Husband Think?
11:24 Wrap-Up
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WATCH MY HEAD SCARF VIDEOS
Why Do Jewish Women Cover Their Hair?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1DtwjFMda0
How to Tie "The Classic" Tichel:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-W0kCaNAi8
Husband Reacts: A Candid Discussion About Hair Covering:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWNmOIEXXy8
Embracing Faith: The Meaning Behind Wearing a Tichel:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Zh7b3M6yks
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HI, I’M RIVKA MALKA
Thanks for being here!
I’m a Jewish educator, speaker, blogger and Transformation Coach, and the Founder of The Redemption School of Coaching and Transformation, Redemption Retreats and SoulShine Coaching.
There’s a gift inside of us that is so big it can nourish the world. There is something for us to teach, to be and to embody that is literally the purpose of our existence.
I help women go beneath the surface and walk through the fire as they grow into the leaders they were meant to be—cultivating inner wisdom, understanding our purpose and seeing how our situation is preparing us for the great future G-d has in mind for us.
The women I work with are passionate about growth and self-awareness. All women are leaders—some in their office, some in their home and some of entire cities. We’re emotionally healthy, creative, big dreamers and, above all, committed to living lives of purpose.
Through my videos and programs, women catapult their business or personal life into realms of influence, impact and inspiration. They change their marriages, heal from trauma, release resentment, find freedom from limiting beliefs and deepen their connection to G-d.
It’s time to literally reinvent yourself.
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WANT THE STORY BEHIND ALL OF IT?
Watch my NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE and how it changed my life:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=thXcPX3dxTk
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